12 “Notes to Self” We Should All Remember Prior To Life Obtains Any Kind Of Harder

12 Notes to Self We Should All Memorize Before Life Gets Any Harder

I know a lot of us are yearning for a simpler and careful variety of life experiences today– the better days, the normal times, the settings and experiences that make us really feel more comfortable. And yet, the full range of our fact usually brings something very various. The days and weeks in front of us will certainly offer a considerable range of experiences that evoke feelings varying from despair and struggle to growth and satisfaction, and a lot more.

So we have an option starting today. We can rebellion against truth– the reality of needing to deal with discomfort, of having to handle uncertainty, of having to feel dismayed occasionally. Or we can welcome every experience life provides us, consisting of all our highs and lows– all the blissful minutes, and irritating ones, and everything in between. Life is not simply delighted and comfy 24/ 7 It’s well-rounded and it’s ever-changing.

Welcoming the full series of life’s experiences suggests accepting every moment with our complete presence, being open and prone to reality, being mild with ourselves when minutes are harder than we anticipated, and exercising sincere appreciation whenever possible …

It indicates approving life as it is, and approving ourselves as we are.

It implies not expecting the very best to happen every action of the method, however instead approving what happens with each action, and making the best of it.

And it won’t constantly be simple of course, yet it’s worth bearing in mind and practicing daily so we are prepared when a day comes that’s much more challenging than we expected.

The key is maintaining the ideal ideas on top of our minds.

Over the previous 15 + years, Angel and I have written numerous “notes to self” like the ones listed here (some of which are now excerpts from our books , and after that we assess them daily until they come to be instilled in our minds. These memorized notes have actually helped us remain on track in different locations of life by equipping us to make the most effective and most reliable use of the ever-changing truth before us. So starting today, I wish you can locate some worth in them as well. I challenge you to memorize at least a few of these notes over the next few weeks. Turn them into wallpaper on your phone, or merely compose the words down on sticky notes and leave them in locations where you can see them daily …

1

Note to Self: Happiness is letting go of what you assume your life is supposed to be like right now, and sincerely appreciating it for everything that it is. So, RELAX. You are enough. You have enough. You do enough. Breathe deep... let go, and just live right now in the moment.

2

Learning to ignore certain people and things is one of the great paths to inner peace. Once you begin to value your inner peace over your need to react and be right, you will in fact experience more inner peace, and happiness.

3

When things aren't adding up in your life, begin subtracting. Life gets a lot simpler when you clear the clutter that makes it complicated. It’s all about focus. What you pay attention to grows. So focus on what matters and let go of what does not.

4

Do your best to take a deep breath, and another. Remind yourself that the strongest sign of your growth is knowing you're no longer stressed by the trivial things that once used to drain you.

5

You can’t control how other people behave. You can’t control everything that happens to you. What you can control is how you respond to it all. In your response is your power.

6

The trick is to enjoy life. Don’t wish away all your days waiting for better ones ahead. Just appreciate where you are right now. You've come a long way, and you're still learning and growing. Be thankful for the lessons. Take them and make the very best of things today.

7

Forgive yourself for the bad decisions you made, for the times you lacked understanding, for the choices that hurt others & yourself. Forgive yourself, for being young & reckless. These are all vital lessons. And what matters most right now is your willingness to grow from them.

8

Everything gets a bit uncomfortable when it's time to change. That's just a part of the growth process. With effort, things will gradually get better. Be patient and remind yourself: Life never gets easier, you just get stronger.

9

If you don’t allow yourself to move past what happened, what was said, what was felt, you will look at your present & future through that same dirty lens, & nothing will be able to focus your foggy judgment. Realize this. What you do now matters more than what happened yesterday.

10

Impress yourself. Show yourself that you can grow and get better. It's never about competing with anyone else. In the end, it's just you vs. you.

11

You need to do hard things to be happy in life. Because the hard things ultimately build you up and change your life. They make the difference between existing and living, between knowing the path and walking it, between a lifetime of empty promises and one filled with progress.

12

If you wait until you feel 100% ready, you will be waiting the rest of your life. Realize this! Some people wait all day for 5pm, all week for Friday, all year for the holidays, all their lives for happiness. Don't be one of them.

Now it’s your turn …

Although none of the aforementioned “notes to self” right away compel you to do anything different, they can give a timely change in viewpoint, and great point of view is where progression begins. As an example, with the right way of thinking you can transform your pose from among stress and resistance to among approval and possibility as you relocate with the days and weeks in advance. Ultimately, the goal isn’t to get rid of all your unfavorable thoughts, sensations or life scenarios. The objective is to progressively change your perspective and action to them.

But before you go, please leave Angel and me a comment below and let us understand what you think about these notes. Your comments is very important to us.

Which among the notes above reverberated one of the most today?

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